how about a black tie, fully loosened (knot being about chest level). too bad you didn’t buy white dress pants with a black dress shirt (that would sure stand out)

Without actually seeing the outfit, it’s hard to be exact, but possibly a scarf, dangly earrings, something to put in your hair, or a dramatic pin for your suit.

ever try to match black with gold? you should try using gold bangels…after all, gold and black is an elegant mix. Long dazzling earing should also be worn and silver heels (like what you had mention) will look superb, as well as red heels and gold plaited heels. Another thing to make you look splendid is of course, an appropriate blend of make-up and hair. make sure not to cut your hair at the same day of your graduation as it wont fall nicely, try cutting your hair one week ahead. All the best luck for your graduation and band!

all the best.